An Open Letter on the Bathroom Rule


Dear FPIW,

I am really grateful for your leadership and resourcefulness on this “Open Bathroom/Showers” issue. I have PTSD, am a rape survivor, as well as a domestic violence survivor.

I already wrote senators and did all that I could.  I wish that these heartless legislators who said for people to “stop being afraid” could understand what it is like to be raped, and understand that people with PTSD cannot just ‘stop being afraid’.  When naked men are allowed to be in the stall next to women as they undress or they emerge from the gym shower with their naked penis in full view, for the women and children undressing, it is SHOCKING and TERRIFYING.

I cannot see a stranger’s penis and simply “not react.”

PTSD (especially with repeated experiences of violence) is physiological and, as I have learned, actually alters part of the limbic area of the brain AND the autonomic nervous system (“fight or flight”).  When I am around a ‘trigger’ (such as an image that triggers a memory), I have a physical reaction — shaking, fright, nausea; I can feel my heart pounding in my chest, feeling that my well-being might be threatened.  I cannot control this automatic physical reaction.

If I were to suddenly be next to a naked man, I know I would panic, suffer physically from the instantaneous physical reactions from my PTSD, and would need the entire day to calm down.  Why would a ‘transgender’ person get their ‘feelings hurt’ just by using the restroom/shower that matches their anatomy?

We cannot just sacrifice our safety.  It may just be a matter of time for a woman or a child to be raped as predators enjoy this new, easy opportunity by just waltzing right in, pretending to be transgendered.

God help us through this nightmare.

God Bless you all.

-Anonymous

3 replies
  1. Lacey
    Lacey says:

    Dying from the Flu in one year 1 in 345,100
    Getting killed by a terrorist 1 in 80,000
    Getting killed by lighting 1 in 126,000
    Getting Killed by a meteorite 1 in 700,000
    Getting Killed by a tornado 1 in 60,000
    Winning the WA St. Lotto 1 in 6,990,000
    Attacked by Trans or those that pretend to be Trans 1 in 63,600,000
    Odds of Transgender person getting murdered 1 in 12
    Murdered in the men’s room Higher

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    • Clark Kent
      Clark Kent says:

      Lacey: The issue is NOT being attacked by a transgender. The issue is ANY MALE CLAIMING TO BE FEMALE CAN NOW LEGALLY BE IN THE FEMALE BATHROOM! This recently happened at a City of Seattle pool facility. GROW UP!

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